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Eve teasing or sexual abuse and rape is very common in India. Eve teasers are SEXUAL ABUSERS who are potential RAPISTS. Do NOT ignore or tolerate eve teasing/sexual abuse because it can lead to RAPE. Learn these self defense techniques on how to protect yourself from sexual abuse and rape in India. Share this with friends and relatives who do not have access to the Internet.


Step 1-CHILDREN AND YOUNG GIRLS: Recognize eve teasing or sexual harassment. Eve teasing is the term used in India when a stranger makes a remark about your body, dress or the way you walk or about your posture. He may also make cat calls. It usually happens in public places. It can also happen in schools. Tell your teachers when it happens.



Step 2-Learn more about the human body. Ask teachers to teach you about male and female body development, reproduction system and puberty.



Step 3-Recognize sexual abuse and rape. If a male touches your sexual parts or rubs his body against you, or inserts an object or his hand or his sexual part into your body, it is not a gesture of affection. It means the person is molesting you and/or raping you.



Step 4-Be aware during play, religious functions and parties. During play or during parties and functions, if boys try to touch your sexual parts, scream/yell/run away from the place/shout for help/tell parents


Step 5-Beware when someone touches your sexual parts. If an older relative or a family friend touches your sexual parts as a gesture of affection, move away/scream/yell/jab at his eye or bite his hand/run away from the place/shout for help/tell parents.




Step 6-Beware when someone tempts you with a treat. If your male relative or family friend tells you to come to his house or room alone, promising to give you an attractive gift or treat, refuse. Ask him to bring the gift out where everyone can see it. Tell your parents if he forces you or threatens you.



Step 7-Attract attention: When the abuse begins or is about to begin, create a ruckus or tantrum or throw things out of the window to attract others’ attention. Do this even if the abuse happens in the night when everyone is sleeping. Don’t worry about disturbing their sleep. Worse things are happening to you and will worsen.



Step 8-Tell someone the first time it happens. If a relative or family friend is sexually abusing you, tell your parents or your sister or grandmother the first time it happens even if the abuser tells you not to.



Step 9-Travel in a group. Always walk or travel to school and back home in groups.


Step 10-Use safe roads. Avoid walking on lonely or deserted roads when you go out shopping, or for running errands. Walk in streets which are well lit, where there is moving traffic and where there are people.

Step 11-Take ladies seat in bus and train. If you have to travel alone by bus or train, ask for a ladies seat or compartment.



Step 12-Keep yourself strong and fit. Exercise regularly and eat well and drink sufficient water.






Report calls for wide-ranging changes to country's culture and infrastructure following death sentences in Delhi gang-rape trial
Campaigners are calling for a new deal for India's women in the wake of the death sentences handed down by a Delhi judge to four men who tricked a woman and her male friend on to an out-of-service bus before gang-raping her so brutally that she died later from her injuries.
The case brought women's rights protesters across India on to the streets in angry demonstrations against the country's culture of violence against women, from female foeticide to rape. But activists fear the intense focus on the court case will do nothing to improve the safety of women on city streets. A new report by three Indian academics supports those concerns and says it is India's infrastructure that needs to change, from bus services to public toilets.
Pending an appeal expected to be lodged this week, four of the six guilty men – one died in jail and another was sent to a young offenders' prison – will be hanged under changes made to Indian law as a direct response to the case, making aggravated rape punishable by death and fast-tracking sexual offence cases through the courts.
Issuing his decision, Judge Yogesh Khanna said the attack "shocked the collective conscience" of India. "In these times, when crime against women is on the rise, the courts cannot turn a blind eye toward such gruesome crimes."
There were nearly 25,000 reported cases of rape in 2012 in India. In Delhi, with a population of 15 million, more than 1,000 cases were reported in the year to mid-August 2013, against 433 reported in the same period last year. In Jharkhand state, to the south-east, more than 800 cases have been reported in the past seven months, including a gang rape of a schoolgirl. There were 460 reported cases in all of 2012. The rise may be in part due to increased reporting, but India's National Crime Records Bureau says registered rape cases in India have increased by almost 900% over 40 years, to 24,206 incidents in 2011. Some activists say one in 10 rapes is reported; others one in 100. In a 2011 poll nearly one in four Indian men admitted to having committed some act of sexual violence.
But the report Invisible Women, by academics Shilpa Phadke, Shilpa Ranade and Sameera Khan – due to appear in the next issue of Index on Censorship magazine – reflects a real fear that at the end of the Delhi trial the media spotlight will move on from mistreatment of women.
The report argues that India's infrastructure needs to be transformed to give women an equal and safer place in cities. They write that the Delhi rape "was facilitated in part by the lack of adequate public transport, which meant that she was travelling in a private bus". The women point out that transport, lighting, toilets and other public facilities are designed with an "invariably male" user in mind. As a result, women's toilets "are dark and unfriendly" and often close at 9pm, "sending the clear message that women are not expected to – and not supposed to – be out in public at night". This means women "have to learn extreme bladder control and to negotiate dark streets and unfriendly parks".
The link between access to toilets and rape is an issue in rural areas as well. In May it was reported that most rapes in the state of Bihar occurred when women went outside to the toilet at night. The authors claimed shopping malls were the only places in India's cities where women felt safe. Streets need to be well-lit, public transport needs to be regulated and to run day and night, and safe toilets need to be available.
"We need to move beyond the struggle against violence and articulate women's right to the city in terms of the quest for pleasure," the report says. The victim in the bus rape had been to the cinema. "Changing attitudes may take time but the provision of infrastructure can be a simple one-time policy decision, which reinforces the point that women belong in public space."
In Mumbai, a scheme for women-only train carriages was seen as a great success because it "enshrined their right to be there", the authors write.
The report illustrates the determination of activists to keep the issue from fading. "It is the beginning of our movement," said Anuradha Kapoor of civil rights group Maitree, who was arrested in June at a women's rights protest. "We won't give up so easily."
Writer Nilanjana Roy agreed: "The rapes might not stop, but this conversation isn't stopping either."



New Delhi: Vijayan, a  65-year-old wayside tea-seller from  Kochi along with his wife Mohana has visited almost every scenic destinations in 16 countries including Britain, France, Austria, Egypt and UAE, by borrowing loans from different banks in the country.
                                                   
“If you really wish to chase your dreams, nothing can stop you from it,” said Vijayan, who own a tiny tea shop in Kochi, Kerala.
His tea-stall is his only source of income, something that has never been an obstacle in fulfilling their dream of travelling all over the world.
“I got the obsession in traveling from my dad; he took me to different places since I was 6 year old. We went to Madurai, Palani and many other places. Those travel memories with my dad helped me unleash my dreams” Vijayan said.

Trips with his father to almost all temples in Kerala triggered his passion for travelling across the globe; however his father’s death brought all possibilities of travelling to a standstill as he took up all family responsibilities. In 1988  he resumed travelling when he accompanied a man as his cook on a pilgrimage to the Himalayas. And the trip changed his life.
Mohana, joined him forty years ago. Post marriage, the couple have explored exotic cities, all on their own. Excitement lights up her face as Mohana explains her most enjoyable journeys.

“I was really excited when we first travelled abroad. Belonging to a very poor family, I never dreamt of a life like this. Later along with him I too became obsessed with the journeys. Switzerland is my favourite among the places we visited”, she says.
It’s hasn't been easy for the elderly couple to sustain such a lifestyle. With their sole source of income coming from their tea-shop, the only way out for them to pursue their love for travelling was via help through bank loans. 

Despite all financial insecurities, the couple would take a loan, travel to a foreign destination, come back and spend the next three years repaying the debt they owed, and the cycle would go on. 
“There will be many hurdles, but we can overcome that through hard work. If you really wish to chase your dreams, nothing can stop you from it” he says.
Vijayan save rupees 300 a day for tickets and spend just 10 dollars or less on picking up some tiny souvenirs from the places of visit. They don’t spend anything more.

The couple however visited 16 countries, but now they wish to harbour towards United States. We hope soon they will reach their dream destination too.


KOLKATA, India (AP) — A nun in her 70s was gang-raped by a group of bandits Saturday when she tried to prevent them from robbing a Christian missionary school in eastern India, police said, the latest crime to focus attention on the scourge of sexual violence in the country.
The nun was hospitalized in serious condition after being attacked by seven or eight men at the Convent of Jesus and Mary School in Nadia district, 80 kilometers (50 miles) northeast of the West 
Bengal state capital of Kolkata, a police officer said.
The men escaped and police are searching for them, said the officer, who spoke on condition of anonymity because he was not authorized to talk to reporters.
The robbers tied the school's security guards with ropes early Saturday and entered the nuns' room, where the women were sleeping. They took one of the nuns to another room when she tried to block their way and then raped her, the officer said.
The woman who was attacked is either 71 or 72 and is the oldest nun at the school, he said.
The men escaped with some cash, a cellphone, a laptop computer and a camera, all belonging to the school, the officer said. They also ransacked the school's chapel and holy items, the Press Trust of India news agency cited the archbishop of Kolkata, Thomas D'Souza, as saying.
Scores of angry students, their parents and teachers blocked a nearby highway and railroad tracks for several hours demanding swift police action leading to the arrest of the culprits.
Mamta Banerjee, the state's top elected official, strongly condemned the attack and ordered a high-level police investigation. D'Souza appealed to people to maintain peace and harmony in the area.
India has a long history of tolerance for sexual violence, but the December 2012 fatal gang rape of a 23-year-old woman aboard a moving bus in New Delhi caused outrage across the nation.
The outcry led the federal government to rush legislation doubling prison terms for rapists to 20 years and criminalizing voyeurism, stalking and the trafficking of women. The law also makes it a crime for officers to refuse to open cases when complaints are made.


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Amid the fallout of a harrowing documentary into the gang-rape and murder of a 23-year-old student in Delhi, a new case bearing shocking similarities has emerged involving a six-year-old girl in the west of India.
According to local media reports, a 25-year-old man in the Sola district of Ahmedabad has been arrested on suspicion of abducting a young girl, beating and sexually assaulting her with a 4-ft iron rod and then discarding her to run home to her family.
The girl’s father complained to Sola police, who told they had recovered a rod allegedly used in the attack and registered a complaint of rape.
A police official told the newspaper the six-year-old was playing on a construction site next to one where her father was working when the alleged attack took place. “She said that a security guard of the adjoining construction site had taken her to a basement at the site, molested her [and] beat her with a TMT iron bar... [Her father] and other labourers rushed to the site and confronted the man, who fled,” the official said.
Police inspector BV Gohil named the arrested suspect as Kaushal Chauhan, who “maintains he had altercations with the family earlier and that they may have decided to get even”.
The brutal assault allegations come as India debates what a string of recent attacks on women say about the “male mind-set” of the nation.
On Sunday night, BBC Four is set to broadcast for a second time the controversial documentary about the Delhi gang-rape that has been banned in India itself.
Delhi bus gang rape accused Mukesh Singh brought to Delhi High Court under high security for hearing in New Delhi, 2013Delhi bus gang rape accused Mukesh Singh brought to Delhi High Court under high security for hearing in New Delhi, 2013
India’s Daughter includes an interview with one of the men convicted of abducting, raping and assaulting with an iron bar an aspiring physiotherapist on 16 December 2012.
Criticising the Indian government’s attempts to suppress the film from being shown to both domestic and international audiences, opposition politician Priya Dutt said: “I am very shocked at the decision to ban the video. Rapes happen every single day and this has to be exposed. The documentary didn't defend the rape. In fact it showed the mindset of the rapist.”

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